What makes woman good in bed

Want to know what men reckon makes someone amazing in bed? I know, I know. When I first spotted this Reddit thread , I was hesitant to click. Afraid I'd just seem total knobheads writing "deep throating" and "double back flipping onto my dick" over and over again. But, I was pretty surprised to see their answers were actually legit.

Maybe I should have more faith in men? Lol, jk. Although I would add that good oral skills are always a huge bonus.

Even just one of those qualities practically guarantees I'll have a great time. If they're moaning and gasping, they're engaged in the moment. If they're biting me, pretty much anywhere is acceptable, they're engaged. If they're limp and snoring, well, you know. Being 'good' in bed is really just you paying attention to your partner and communicating, your needs and theirs.

Open to explore, confident enough to share what she wants to explore, and flexible not in the physical manner, though that doesn't hurt but able to be a little dominant, or submissive depending on the mood. Even if she's not physically ideal, if she's confident in herself and can communicate what she needs from me or just straight up takes it , she's good in bed. The hottest sex you will ever have is with someone you've been with enough that you've learned each other's bodies and preferences.

But yeah, probably less than half are 'good. What happens, though, if your previous partners or current partner is shy? How will you know if you've got the memorable moves that will always get your lover in the groove?

Following are some signs that could mean you have what it takes to provide pleasure in the bedroom. Anyone who loves what they are doing is often good at it and, in many cases, sex is no different. Ricciardi said that switching up the sex positions and never skipping foreplay can also be signs that you're good in bed. It's often been said that confidence will take you a long way in life, and, according to Ricciardi, that includes your sex life.

You're vocal. You're enthusiastic. You feel them desiring you! Finding the "right person" is the real hard "work" required to have a successful relationship. Most people these days believe the "work" begins after you've chosen someone. I tend to feel if it's "hard work" being with someone it means you chose the "wrong person" to be with!

Two people who share the same values, want the same things for the relationship, and agree on how to obtain those things while having a mutual depth of love and desire for one another shouldn't have a lot of "hard work".

Good article on how to improve your relationship. Sex is great with the right person. The hard part is finding the right person, loving,caring, giving, and a great lover all in the one person. Sadly, I suspect more men are interested in learning how to "pick up" attractive women than learning how to improve their relationships.

Annelle, I look forward to reading your hub on "What makes a man good in bed? Don't be surprised however if HP disables your ads on that hub. Google shies away posting ads on hubs that deal with sex. Really interesting, informative, funny, polite yet straight forward writing. Voted up and up! Unfortunately there are no "laws". One can't "make themselves" be attracted to someone. It's possible to have two people kiss you or touch in the same exact way and yet you mentally and physically respond to them differently.

Chemistry and attraction are those "intangible qualities" that cause us to pursue a romantic relationship with one person while only desiring a "platonic friendship" with another person. It's either "there" or it's not. One this i know is that it begins from one person, the lady or the guy. Being attractive helps a lot but one cannot overlook chemistry, one's libido, and desire to make the effort to satisfy.

This article however came about due to a woman asking a man "What makes a woman good in bed? Naturally any question such as this is answered from that individual's opinion.

Everyone has an idea of what things they like, enjoy, or even dislike based upon their past experiences. Most men want their women to be completely satisfied in bed. Maybe one of the female writers will post a hub stating; What makes a man good in bed.

Very interesting article, and well written. However, I strongly believe the ability for a woman to be good with sex depends greatly on the man she is dong it with. If he is not pleasing her how can she show she is enthusiastic and that she likes sex while being vocal? She can't, unless she is faking it and that won't be pleasurable for either of them. My point is it takes two people to be great with sex. Both their actions are going to affect each others mood in the bedroom and both parties need to meet each other half way.

I'm not sure which ads they would use either. However I suspect there are some dating sites or books about keeping the passion alive that would have been suitable. One man's opinion! It would have been interesting to see what adverts would have been on here if they had been allowed!

Deborah, I agree that sexuality can be enhanced if we are emotionally connected to the person we are with. However there is also no denying that some people are really good at pleasing others in bed from a physical standpoint as well. Not all lovers are skilled or created equal. It's not uncommon that the person one is "in love" with is NOT the best sex partner they have ever had.

Nevertheless sex is only one component. I think the one thing in common with all is true intimacy, which consists of trust, warm closeness, and friendship. When we share intimacy with someone, sexuality feels like spirituality. Rajan, Thanks for stopping by to read my hub and post a comment. Your compliments are very much appreciated. Yes, and it's sad in a way that such an important and significant physical act gets side-swiped so much.

Great article : voted up. Sometimes couples in long-term relationships fall into a "routine" and forget how much fun and erotic sex can be if they're both willing put the effort into it and make it a priority.

Most people have 3 "To do" list. Too often today people are in such a hurry to downplay the significance of sex in a loving relationship. If one is not careful it's easy to desexualize a relationship to the point where a husband and wife are more like roommates with the same last name!

Once you lose "it" it's hard to get back. I second Elaine - Simon says is a great idea