Why do creepy guys always like me

And I'm only I'm from Vancouver. And regarding that I know I'm not attractive so what could possibly attract these women to me Ohhh cool. Im from Chicago. I don't know, maybe it has to do with your demeanor. You're onto something. I'm pretty reserved and quiet looking on the skytrain. It's the women in my class who seem to be more attracted to me once I open my mouth as I got a very deep voice. I need to observe myself more. These men weren't ugly, for others they would be attractive.

Like they're socially awkward. Maybe bc I am awkward too. Learn more. Guy's Behavior. Somehow, I always attract the weird creepy dudes. For example, I commute to college, so I take the public bus and this guy sits really close to me and keeps asking me if i am single while rubbing close to me even though I am trying to hint him that i am not interested. Next day, he sits right next to me again and asked me out. I told him a lie said I was a lesbian and not interested.

Thank goodness he took the hint. And recently, this other dude in my class follows me everywhere, asks if I need help and when I say no, he literally stands there and stares at me stares at me during lecture too. When I go outside, he follows me. It creeps me out. And he's still actively doing this. And there are more incidents like this. So why do I attract creepy guys? Do I do something wrong? Share Facebook. Why do I attract weird, creepy guys? The Times of India. Can eating too many oranges lead to side effects?

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How to care for your baby's skin the right way. The perfect beauty product for oily skin. The person made it nearly impossible for your friend to leave the conversation without appearing rude. The person relentlessly steered the conversation towards one topic. There were many other characteristics associated with creepiness.

According to participants, the creepiest professions are in this order clown, taxidermist, sex-shop owner and funeral director. In fact, In general, the creepy characteristics tapped into three core factors: They make us fearful or anxious; creepiness is seen as part of the personality of the individual rather than just their behavior; and we think they may have a sexual interest in us.

We make our judgements about trustworthiness within 39 milliseconds of seeing a face. One of my favorite, albeit tiny, studies on whether we can accurately judge a person by their face comes from a paper from Stephen Porter and colleagues at Dalhousie University, Canada.

Participants were asked to rate 34 photos of adult male faces on trustworthiness, kindness and aggressiveness. The trustworthy people in the photos had either received the Nobel Peace Prize or the Order of Canada for their devotion to humanity, peace and society. Maybe we need to organize a Nobel Laureate reality TV show. When it comes to creepiness, one important feature was attractiveness — in one study, attractive people were deemed to be trustworthy, whether they were Nobel Laureates or criminals.

They correctly identified 49 percent of the wanted criminals as untrustworthy. However, they were slightly better with the Nobel Laureates, rating them as trustworthy 63 percent of the time.

The authors concluded that to make their judgements, people were looking for signs of kindness or aggressiveness in the faces of those they were evaluating. Tying together the original creepiness study and the Nobel Laureate study, a paper found — again — that creepy people were generally thought to be lanky men with poor hygiene who behaved awkwardly. The Canadian researchers also tested 15 photos from the Nobel Laureate study to learn about trustworthiness.

One important feature is attractiveness — attractive people were deemed to be trustworthy, be they Nobel Laureates or criminals. You can also misunderstand her social cues or boundaries. For example, she responds friendly to your hello and then you suddenly start groping her. You say overly sexual things in inappropriate settings or around a lot of people instead of moving her somewhere private. Use common sense. Burping, staring at her breasts right away, and nail biting are huge turnoffs.

Also, chill out on the alcohol and limit yourself to a few drinks in a night. As for reading her social cues, pay attention to her body language and again, signs of interest. Begin casually with your physical contact and proximity and ramp it up. Start with low level touches and see if she responds positively. These rules apply to teasing as well. Be socially considerate. Chat for a few minutes and then invite her to grab a drink or fresh air for a more personal discussion.

Proper restraint when necessary is attractive in a man. Again, the best method to learn social calibration is through experience. You need to develop your emotional intelligence and that can only happen with practice. Have a free minute strategy session with me! Contact Resources Media About Home. Stop Missing Dating Opportunities. Learn More!