Why do men love bjs

He just wants you to relax. It's a blow job. He's just happy you're here and doing things with his penis. Don't get in your own head about it. I know that's basically what a football coach would say, but playing football and going down have a lot in common.

For one, I hear they're both exhausting. Closing his eyes doesn't mean he's falling asleep. He's enjoying himself. He'll likely alternate between watching you with a giant smile on his face and closing his eyes to enjoy what's happening.

Blow jobs are passive for him, and that's part of the appeal if we're being honest; he doesn't have to do anything.

He doesn't even need to keep his eyes open if he doesn't want to. He's going to give you as much warning as he can before he orgasms. But it still might not be enough. Please don't be mad at him though. Sometimes it sneaks up on him and he's screaming, "I'm going to come! He's putting a lot of faith in you, so please be careful with your teeth. This is an exercise in trust.

It is a very vulnerable time for a man and his junk. Basically, it's a trust fall for his penis. When it's time for liftoff, please do not point his penis up at his face or into a dark corner of the room. No one wants to get cum all over themselves or find a bunch of it encrusted on their couch when they're cleaning their room a month later. I mean, a day later. Energetically, men feel like losers when they have to hint, ask, or even beg for a blowjob.

But then again, most men will do almost anything for a blowjob. Yep, almost anything — so feel free to get creative with your requests. Men love women with a pleasing personality. Men continually compare you to their past sexual experiences. If his ex swallowed happily and you bet he loved it! He might just view you as a spare tire. Ready to replace you at the drop of a hat. Sad, but true. After all, you only live once.

Blowjobs are about power. This makes him feel worshipped while having a perfect view of all your assets: boobs, booty, and pumps. You command total pleasure or horrible pain — like chopping his penis off and tossing it out the window of a moving car. I watched a lot of movies. Men are visual. On the contrary, you risk him thinking about that other chick or some porn star instead of seeing you. Confidence is key. Fake it if you must.

Dump him. He wants you to be that innocent princess so he can be your knight in shining armour and save you. Trust Jack, guys get off on this kinda stuff. And what we think you are thinking about directly influences how a guy perceives your blowjob. The best thing you can do is to not think — instead — just feel.

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